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AC/DC

Person who enjoys sexual activity from both sexes. Also mentioned as Bi or Bisexual.

ADULT

One who has reached the age-of-majority or legal age, now generally 18 years. Also someone who is dealing with explicitly seuxal material; pornographic.

ALL CULTURES

People who are open to all fetishes and sexual activities.

AMERICAN CULTURE

Male on top; also indicated as the missionary position.

ANAL SEX

Anal intercourse; anal play; generic term for any form of stimulation of the anorectal area, including penetration with the penis , with one or more fingers (anal fingering), with an entire fist (fisting), with a dildo, vibrator, anal-beads, or buttplug, with the tongue (anilingus / rimming), or with enemas; also indicated as "by the backside".

ANALINGUS

Oral contact or stimulation of the by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other; The enthusiasts of this practice have a saying: ' Once you get past the smell, you've got it licked'; From the Latin anus.

ANIMAL TRAINING

Sexual relations between a human being and an animal, usually dogs and women; Bestiality; Beast-fuck.

ARTS

Code word for fetish. The words arts, cultures, way, when preceded by the name of a country, refer to specific fetishistic or deviant sexual-preferences. 'I'm into / we're into...' means involved in, a practitioner of a particular of. Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures.

B&D or B/D

Abbreviation for bondage-and-discipline also called, more rarely, bondage-and-dominance or bondage-and-domination. It includes: slave/master, harem girl/sultan, boy/daddy, student/schoolmistress. Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave"; Also known as BDSM.

BBW

Big Beautiful Woman;

BESTIALITY

(see ANIMAL TRAINING)

BI

A person sexually attracted to both men and women; Bisexual; (see AC/DC)

BI-CURIOUS

An individual curious and willing to experience same-sex activities.

BIZARRE

Fantasies about uncommon sexual activities.

BM

Black Male

BONDAGE

A sexual practice in which a participant is physically restrained or otherwise tied-up , as with cords, ropes, silk scarves, collars, fetters, leg irons, handcuffs, or manacles, or through the use of stocks, pillories, cages, etc., as a means of attaining sexual gratification from relinquishming control, or in combination with spanking, whipping and other disciplines as in bondage-and-discipline . A role play with 'dominant' and 'submissive' participant(s).

CAN ENTERTAIN

In personal ads/profile (e.g. on Swingsation.com), willing to open one's home for swinger parties and/or to ing to invite others to their home for swinging.

CAN TRAVEL

In personal ads/profile (e.g. on Swingsation.com), willing to travel to your home.

CANING

Discipline and submissive by whipping with a switch or cane (usually light wood or bamboo).

CHEATING

To be sexually unfaithful to one's spouse or regular partner.

CLEAN

Not infected with any sexually-transmitted-diseases; disease-free. In personal profiles, clean often also means that you are willing to have unprotected-sex; Synonym: disease-free or Hygienic.

CLOSED DOOR

(see CLOSED SWINGING)

CLOSED SWINGING

Or: closed-door, sexual interaction among swinging couples who trade partners and go to a separate rooms to have intercourse in privacy.

CLOSET SWINGER

A swinger who hides his/her sexual activity.

COUPLE

Two people, most often a man and woman, closely associated, as an engaged or married couple or otherwise paired. Also two single people dating only together to be active in swinging lifestyle.

CPL

(see COUPLE)

CUCKOLD

A man whose wife has has been unfaithful; the husband of an adulteress; Nowadays also means that a husband likes to watch his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. Also the other way around.

CULTURE

See Arts.

CUNNILINGUS

Stimulation of the vaginal and clitoris by mouth, tongue or lips from a partner of either sex for pleasure or for orgasm (see FRENCH CULTURE).

DILDO

An object made out of rubber or plastic shaped like an erect penis , used as a sexual-aid; an artificial-penis with or without a scrotum to stimulate the vagina and/or the anus.

DIRECTOR

Owner or main person (manager) of a swing club.

DISCIPLINE

Sadomasochistic (domination) scenario in which one person imposes rules of behavior on another through discipline and punishment. Usually through physical punishment such as spanking, bondage, etc., as well as through oral abuse and all types of volluntary humiliation which enjoys the people involved;

DISCREET OR DISCRETION

Asking or demand to others for total privacy and to keep it secret that they are in the swinging lifestyle.

DOCILE

Willing to receive discipline and/or bondage (see SUBMISSIVE).

DOMESTIC TRAINING

Submissive to the other with an intimate and humiliating nature.

DOMESTIC PARTNER

A live-in partner ; a person with whom one cohabits in a sexual relationship

DOMINANT

A person who assumes a dominant or directorial role in sadomasochistic scenario;

ENGLISH CULTURE

Sadomasochistic activities involving spanking or caning.

ENTERTAIN

(see CAN ENTERTAIN)

EXHIBITIONIST

People which receive personal sexual pleasure to show his/her body and often enjoys that people watch him/her.

F

Female

FELLATIO

Stimulation of the penis with the lips, tongue and/or mouth by a male or female (partner) for sexual pleasure and in most cases for orgasm and ejaculation.

FETISH

Sexual attraction or devotion to a specific part of the body (rather than attraction to the person as a whole).

FLAGELLATION

Sexual pleasure while undergoing pain.

FLAGGING

FRENCH CULTURE

Oral-sexual relations (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus).

FUN AND GAMES

Sexual activity, including sexual-intercourse.

GAY

A person whose affectional and sexual-orientation is towards members of the same sex. Can be a male (often indicated as a homosexual person) or female (often indicated as gay female or Lesbian).

GBM

Gay Black Male

GENEROUS

When people want to pay for sex.

GREEK CULTURE

Tterm for anal-sex.

GROUP ROOM

Room especially for sexual activity for three people or more. Usually equiped with wall-to-wall mattresses. Often found in private clubs for swingers or private parties.see MATROOM).

GROUP SEX

Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people of various sexes.

GWM

Gay White Male

HARD CORE

A swing party or swing environment where explicit sexual interaction is common and desired.

HARD SWINGING

(see HARD CORE)

HEAD

To give (good) head , to perform oral-genital-sex on someone (see French Culture); At a men also called BJ or Blowjob.

HEDONIST

A person dedicated to the pursuit of living (sexual) pleasure.

HETEROSEXUAL

Someone who is sexually attracted to people of the opposite-sex.

HOMOSEXUAL

Someone who is sexual attracted to people of the same sex (See GAY).

HORNY

Sexually excited and in (direct) need for sexual pleasure.

HUNG

Possessing a large penis or large genitals.

HWP

Acronym for Height Weight Proportional, used in profiles and chat by people who describe themselves as having an ideal body weight.

INDOOR

Activities in general by Swingers.

INDOOR SPORTS

(See INDOOR)

INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP

People searching for a swinging relationship that goes beyond sex and includes emotional and recreational values.

IRL

When people in chat or profiles wants to see eachother In Real Life;

ISO

Search Of; used in chat or personal profiles.

LEATHER

Like to feel or to wear leather clothes.

LESBIAN

A woman attracted only to the same sex (see GAY) .

LTR

Long Term Relationship

MARITAL AIDS

Sex toys used for sexual pleasure.

MASOCHISM

Sexual pleasure by receiving pain and humiliation from others.

MASTER/SLAVE

The dominant or active-partner in a BDSM relationship , the person who controls, restrains, or administers the discipline. The partner undergoing all these activities is called �slave� (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) ;

MATROOM

Designated area dedicated for group sex (see GROUP ROOM).

MEET FOR PLEASURE

Swingers who wants to meet for sexual activities or fun without sexual intention on first sight.

MENAGE A' TROIS

Sexual activity involving three people (see THREESOME, TRIAD).

MORESOMES

Three people or more in a swinging sexual encounter (see GROUP SEX).

MBC

Married Black Couple

MBiC

Married Bisexual Couple

MWC

Married White Couple

NASCA

North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs, websites and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research.

NEWCOMERS

New people in the swinging lifestyle also called first-timers.

NONSMOKER

Does not smoke. Used in personal profiles or chats to indicate that someone is not into smoking which is used before or during sexual activities to increase the pleasure.

OFF-PREMISE

Location where no swinging sexual activities take place and where it is expected that you swing somewhere else (e.g. at home). Only for meeting and introducing.

OPEN DOOR

(see OPEN SWINGING)

OPEN SWINGING

Sexual swinging activities take place in one room so all people involved can see each other.

ORAL-GENITAL

(see FRENCH CULTURE, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD)

ORGY

Sexual activities between numerous men and woman in the same area where everone takes part.

PARTY

Sex play with three or more people of both sexes for swinging activities.

PARTY CLOTHES

Specially designed clothes made for swing parties. Often very sexy clothing which is easy changed during the party into even more naughty style so that parts of the body are easilly accesible for other party members.

PARTY HOUSE

A non-membership swing club (often in the western part of the USA) where on-premise swing parties take place.

PASSIVE

To be the recipient in sexual activity; the receptive, inactive or submissive partner, the receptor as opposed to the active partner. Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging (see DISCIPLINE).

PHOTO

Willing to receive and to exchange nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.

PHOTOGRAPHY

Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photograph or movies with similar photographs; interested in meeting with others for the making of sexual explicit photo�s.

P/P

Photo and phone number (used in personal profiles and chat).

PRO

Someone who is a professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.

RECREATIONAL SWINGER

Swinging only for fun and not interested in a long term sexual friendship.

RESTRAINT

Light and mild bondage.

ROMAN

Group sex, orgies, in the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE)

ROMAN CULTURE

Sexual orgies

RUBBER

Use of condom; sexual excitment by the presence of rubber (latex) appearal also used in the B&D scene.

SADISM

Achieving sexual gratification from hurting and humiliating others.

SAFE

Synonym for Anus.

SBF

Single Black Female

SBiF

Single Bisexual Female

SBM

Single Black Male

SGL

(see SINGLE)

S&M or S/M

Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM).

SINGLE

A swinger who enjoys the lifestyle with different swingpartners to join swinging activities.

SOCIAL

Activity organised or sponsored by a swing club or magazine for swingerst to meet eachother. No actual swinging at the scene but can follow after in private setting.

SOCIAL SWING CLUB

Swing Club with mostly a membership fee. Organising special parties for their members and often also travel arrangements.

SODOMY

Anal or oral copulation between a homo- or heterosexual couple.

SOFT SWINGERS

Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse.

SOFT SWINGING

Swinging couple who like to have same-room sex, being watched and to watch other couples but no intercourse with someone else as their partner(see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE).

SRS

Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING).

STD

Acronym for sexually-transmitted-disease

STR or STR8

(see STRAIGHT)

STRAIGHT

Non-swinger; only interested in classic relationshiop; no drugs user.

SUBMISSIVE

A person who wants to play a passive role and wants to be dominated (see Passive).

SWAPPING

Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity; Also called Full Swap; Swinging.

SWEDISH CULTURE

Mutual masturbation by two people to sexually stimulate eachother.

SWINGSATION

Global online community for people active or interested in the Swingers Lifestyle with easy to use latest technology.

SWF

Single White Female

SWING MAGAZINE

A magazine with normally a lot of personal ads and/or profiles of people interested to meet other people in the Swingers lifestyle.

SWINGING

Alternative lifestyle for adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, mostly on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.

SWINGING LIFESTYLE

Style of living with swinging a major component in life; To indulge in adventurous sex ; to exchange sexual partners.

SWINGING MARRIAGE

Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.

SWM

Single White Male

TAN

Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus (AIDS)

THREESOME

Three people, two of one sex in a swinging sexual activity. Often 2 girls and a male. and one of the other in a swinging encounter (see Menage a Trois) .

TICKET

Usually a female at a swingers party who is there only to enable the male part to access the club or party. Female is not allowed or has no intention to join the swining activities.

TOYS

Often named as sex toy / sextoy, any sexually-stimulating object used for during masturbation, foreplay, or sexual-intercourse; Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)

TRANSSEXUAL

Person who has undergone hormone treatment and/or surgery to change from his/her anatomical-sex to the opposite-sex.

TRANSVESTITE

A person who dresses in clothing of the opposite-sex for sexual pleasure.

TRAVEL

(see CAN TRAVEL)

TRIAD

Three people, two of one sex and one of the other who is still having another (steady) relationship. Not the compare as a threesome.

TRIOLISM

Sexual activity involving three people (threesome) regardless of gender (two men and one female , three men, two females and one man, or three women). (see TRIAD).

TUBAL LIGATION

A method of sterilization for females as in surgery they ty up both uterine tubes.

UTOPIAN SWINGER

People who dedicate everything in their life to the swinging community.

VASECTOMY

Surgery to cut and tying the vas of a male for sterilising purposes.

VERSATILE

Bisexual (see AC/DC).

VIBRATOR

A cone- or phallic-shaped, electrically- or battery-powered vibrating device for massaging the vulva, clitoris and/or vagina.

VOLUPTUOUS

A female with large breast and shapes.

VOYEUR

A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.

VOYEURISM

Individual, more often a men, who receives sexual pleasure from observing unsuspecting people, almost always strangers, undressing or engaging in sexual activity.

WM

White Male

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